When you are at your best and you fail ..... just dont bother .... be at your best and spring up as often as you can. Rest Leave it to the ultimate power.

When you are at your best and you fail ..... just dont bother .... be at your best and spring up as often as you can. Rest Leave it to the ultimate power.
LbnRaj

Failing and getting depressed ......?

"Failing and Getting depressed? .... When I fail continuously and regularly .... I get isolated, I feel low. People around who keep succeeding seem to be too busy to talk to a failure like me. I get more and more and low. I feel bad and start accusing myself. I unknowingly start degrading and belittling myself. Of late I realised, if the so called successful people are so busy and careless.... I go to a person who happened to have more failures than what I have undergone myself. This I do this against the popular belief, "to be excellent, be in the company of excellent". Believe me all who failed or continue failing are not useless, illogical and unfair. They are not meant to be failures, but they fail. My stumbling upon those who fail .... did not push me towards failure ..... but towards success. A greater success than otherwise. I have decided, If I need to do something in an extra-ordinary fashion ... I talk to those who failed. This makes me more confident, this makes me spring up unusually and boundless. This is the power of failures and the people who fail". -LbnRaj ; Feb 18, 2017 ; https://moorunaaku.blogspot.in/2017/02/failing-and-getting-depressed.html

Follow righteous people, come what may ..... LbnRaj

"People who are honest, sincere and passionate, most of the times seem to be failing. Continue following these people, come what may. People who are dishonest, insincere and dispassionate may seem to be passing and succeeding. Dont follow these people, come what may." - LbnRaj, moorunaaku.blogspot.in

When you fail to be yourself .......

1. "When we fail to have our terms,. others will dictate their terms to us." - LbnRaj

1. When you fail to form your opinion, u will have to succumb to others opi
   
   nion." - LbnRaj

I am continuing to fail consistently on this count ..... how about you?

The person not so sound in mind, not so much learned as I M , not so comfortable in what she/he has at times tend to accuse me, be little me, insult me, humiliates me consistently. Ok to protect my own image and self respect, I need to respond and act do whatever it takes to come out of the situation. Help the other person in convincing how wrong or inappropriate he/she was. Instead I continue to get offended, count on the words spoken on me. Continuing to murmur to myself, "How he/she can talk to me that way, how he/she can do that to me? Consistently I  feel the lows of my life whenever I am pushed to such a situation where the so called helpless and less sound person belittles me.

WHEN DO I BE MATURE ENOUGH NOT TO GET AFFECTED BY THE NOT SO DECENT ACTS OF OTHERS. WHEN DO I START FORGETTING THE NEGATIVE WORDS OF OTHERS TOWARDS ME? BECAUSE I CANT DO AWAY FROM THE LIFE OF THESE SO CALLED BELITTLING PEOPLE. 

I NEED TO PRAY GOD TO GIVE ME STRENGTH TO WITHSTAND THE NEGATIVENESS AROUND.