When you feel down and depressed , be bit patient ..... hold on for a while ....

"When you feel low and down you tend to think that you are at the dead end, that you cannot come out of that. No, you are not at the dead end .... there is a long way ahead. Just wait for seconds, minutes or hours ..... Either you will be able to make a way or a way would be shown to you by the will of God. Just wait. Just wait. Some thing miraculous could in the offing." LbnRaj 

Happiness is a state of feeling better ....

"Happiness is a  state of feeling better .... feeling light .... feeling best of the colours of life  ... it is a pleasant mood. Surprisingly if by any chance (it is impossible), if some one continues to feel better for long .... or for ever ..... it is not happiness at all. Happiness and unhappiness are proportional in any ones life. More the balance, more it is boring and unexciting. If any one is really happy in life, she or he should have had a chance of being un happy. LbnRaj ; lotus5673@yahoo.co.in . moorunaaku.blogspot.in ; 

Life is full of hopes, much in store .... more than you have ever imagined.

Life is full of hopes, much more in store .... more than you have ever imagined. Never ever have a feeling that your at a dead end. When you are tired of looking for new doors, doors approach you on their own, one of them could be what you always wanted for long." - LbnRaj : https://www.facebook.com/LbnRaj ; 1st Feb 2017

Every one is in a shell

"Everyone is in a shell. What one is, is a result ones own stimuli and response to others actions and ideas. This cumulatively results in what one is. Surprisingly this may itself result into a shell within which an individual starts working, feeling and thinking. This shell may be a result of ones thinking and ones response to others actions and ideas over a number of days and years. It is in this background that one starts finding either good or bad from what others are. This shell may create a fobia to the individual resulting in an attitude of expectations from others. One may tend to forget ones duties and roles.... and may only start thinking and expecting what others should do ... or what others should have done till that time. If any one is  found to be in this state and the person happens to be one of  your near and dear ones, ... u need to be caring, supportive and sympathetic. The truth is ... every one is on a unique journey ... the journey may never ever tally to that of another person. Let us not pre-judge any one ... let us continue to supplement and complement journeys of every one around.... rather than realising how different and odd others joureys are. Let us continue to learn from each other and see if we can look beyond the shell inwhich we are habituated to live and think. LbnRaj ; moorunaaku.blogspot.in ; 

Dont feel belittled by the temporary lows of life ....

"Dont feel belittled by the temporary lows of life. Things may go wrong, even when you are at your best in whatever you say and do. As long as you continue to the best for what you stand for, be firm, be bold and be happy. Dont be upset when your near and dear ones distance away from you when you are graduating from your lowest lows. Dont be surprised when the same near and dear ones flock around you when you are on your highs. Life is all about being tough when the tough is all out to test you. As long as you are sure of your being right, be what you are, rest leave to God for his analysis." - LbnRaj ; https://www.facebook.com/LbnRaj ; 

Happiness is not a stock of things ......

"Happiness is not a stock of things. It is a volatile feeling, momentary or dragging or flashing for some moments or hours. Same thing is true for unhappiness. It could be one after the other, and together". -LbnRaj ; https://www.facebook.com/LbnRaj

Near and Dear Ones

"It is quite possible that the near and dear ones stay away from us. There is a tendency to believe those who are out of sight are out of mind. This is not true. The connection remains as strong as one can imagine. A sense of contentment, a feeling of lightness that we feel about our dear ones at times, is a result of the positive vibes of our dear ones, and the hearty vibes that we have about our dear ones may get manifested in our dear ones who may be physically far far away from us. Real connections continue to be strong and intent, distance cannot come in between. The intensity of involvement could be more compared to the physical proximity." - LbnRaj ; https://www.facebook.com/LbnRaj

How real is a thing known as HAPPINESS......?

Every one undoubtedly wants to be happy in life. It is undoubtedly true that if any one has not experienced pain and unhappiness, it next to impossible to experience happiness and bliss.  One cannot experience and  appreciate light if one has never experienced darkness and shade and vice versa. The truth is "if some gets every thing that that one thinks would make one happy with....... it is sure such a person can never never b happy. Because happiness is not dependent on a fixed set of pre-conditions. Happiness has direct link with not having something and having something. Happiness has lot to do with inequality, and imbalance in society, There are 100 flats in a  complex. Every family one owns a Mercedes. The last family of d complex when buys a Mercedes, would temporarily seems to b happy... The happiness is so momentary, n within few days d charm n glamour  of owning n driving a Mercedes is gone in air. If every one around is HAPPY,   that means for sure, no one is happy. Differentiation n discrimination is a precondition for one to feel happy. ........ HOW LONG ONE COULD CONTINUE TO BE HAPPY WITH A FAVORABLE SITUATION, ADVANTAGEOUS SITUATION. IS IT REALLY A THING OR ONLY AN INTANGIBLE  N UNACCOUNTABLE MOOD N FEELING.

What great people think of HAPPINESS (Source :http://www.quotegarden.com/happiness.html)  : 

http://www.quotegarden.com/happiness.html

Happiness is always a by-product. It is probably a matter of temperament, and for anything I know it may be glandular. But it is not something that can be demanded from life, and if you are not happy you had better stop worrying about it and see what treasures you can pluck from your own brand of unhappiness. ~Robertson Davies


Those who can laugh without cause have either found the true meaning of happiness or have gone stark raving mad. ~Norm Papernick


I don't think you can feel a sense of entitlement and still be happy. Happiness always comes from feeling that you've been blessed. ~Robert Brault,rbrault.blogspot.com


Man is fond of counting his troubles, but he does not count his joys. If he counted them up as he ought to, he would see that every lot has enough happiness provided for it. ~Fyodor Dostoevsky


What a wonderful life I’ve had! I only wish I’d realized it sooner. ~Colette


The foolish man seeks happiness in the distance; the wise grows it under his feet. ~James Openheim


Happiness often sneaks in through a door you didn’t know you left open. ~John Barrymore

The child I am .....

I have a child within me all through .... Only thing I tend to disregard it, forget it .... often. Like all of you, I am so much humbled by the bday wishes ... yes i love to b loved. Feeling so nice.
Love makes us feel happy secured, reasonable and sensible.