it is also ok .... if I dont know where I am heading to .....

It is also ok .... if I dont know where I am heading to ......
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Most of the times I wonder how I reached where I am today. Most of the times I wonder why I dont know where I am going to. Today I realise ..... where I am today is the result of where I wanted to go and where I am brought to. May be I dint mind to know where I am headed to. May be I liked all the time where I was...... Often I reach some where I I never wanted to go .... and I liked .... and then said to my self ..... yes that is where I wanted to go, thanked God that I reached there..... Every thing is good in life for me as I keep learning the art and science of being happy ...... as I  seem to enjoy what happened to me and what I wanted in life to happen to me. -LbnRaj ; http://moorunaaku.blogspot.com/

"If you dont know where you are going how do you expect to get there." _ Source of quote : Executive Diary 2018, Pub : anonymous.

Life has multiple options for us.

"Life has multiple options. When we select we deselect. When we choose a thing we lose a thing. The life we lead till now is a series of things that were given us and the things that we opted to choose. Life need not be what used to be till now. You have all the freedom to change the course of your life by choosing different things in different ways. We still can be what we allways wanted to be. It is never late. If you have missed certian things in life ..... be cheerful.... you got some thing else that others did not have or did not opt for. No regrets." - LbnRaj 

Spread love and understanding around.

"Keep spreading  love and understanding around wherever you are. Let others know that you recognise, adore, respect and care. Doing all this in your own mind may make you happy, but does not serve any purpose for others around you. You dont need big reasons for every interaction and good will you wish to spread. A simple hello, an honest smile or gesture suffices. This helps you realise that you are truly yourself and the best." - LbnRaj ; http://moorunaaku.blogspot.com/ ; Jan 11, 2018

Success and happiness does not relate to the level at which you work!

"Success is success as a wage earner, clerk, teacher, librarian, top businessman or head of a country .... nothing less nothing more. Happiness derived out of success does not depend on the level, position or prosperity." _LbnRaj ; https://moorunaaku.blogspot.in/ ;
Jan 8, 2018 

Dont hide your sorrows. Instead, Do so many endless things that keep you happy and smiling. Overpower your sorrows so much so that U should not have any time left to think of sorrows. Devarai LbnRajashekhar

Dont hide your sorrows. Instead, Do so many endless things that keep you happy and smiling. Overpower your sorrows so much so that U should not have any time left to think of sorrows. Devarai LbnRajashekhar

I HAVE TO DISCOVER NEW WAYS AND MEANS OF PLEASING MYSELF. I AM IMPORTANT, MORE IMPORTANT THAN I HAVE EVER REALISED. CHEERS.

I always want to do the things the way I want and wish. Things happen the way I want but not every time. Suddenly I realise that I have been doing things that I am asked to do, the things that either my seniors or friends or well wishers decide. I start coping up, as I cannot survive without doing those things. I strive to those things to the best of my ability and competence and I do get appreciation and compliments some times. I get momentary happiness as people around get happier and delightful. But from the heart of my heart I am not so happy, I am not so delighted. This is because I was not involved from the heart of my heart. And hence I dont pat my self for these accomplishments. But why, why does things happen this way. Why I end up doing things the way they come to me? Why I fail to do the things the way I wanted?
Ya it is time to introspect, it is time to have control over myself and my gut feelings. Come what may I need to do things, but in my way, in my style.... that please me, that gratify me. For existence and survival I need to do things, but the way the things are done is upto me.
I NEED TO PLAN, I NEED TO PRIORITIZE, I NEED TO FIND MY SPACE FOR BREATHING IN WHATEVER I DO AND THINK.
I NEED TO GIVE MORE THAN  THE MUNDANE REQUIREMENT. I NEED TO MEDITATE, I NEED TO DISCOVER AND PROMOTE MY INNER UNLIMITED POWERS.
YES IT IS TIME TO INTROSPECT, THIS IS THE TIME I NEED TO REAFFIRM THAT I AM NO LESS. I CAN DO THE BEST, COME WHAT MAY.
I HAVE TO DISCOVER NEW WAYS AND MEANS OF PLEASING MYSELF. I AM IMPORTANT, MORE IMPORTANT THAN I HAVE EVER REALISED.
CHEERS.
LbnRaj
moorunaaku.blogspot.in

Happiness is a state of feeling better ....

"Happiness is a  state of feeling better .... feeling light .... feeling best of the colours of life  ... it is a pleasant mood. Surprisingly if by any chance (it is impossible), if some one continues to feel better for long .... or for ever ..... it is not happiness at all. Happiness and unhappiness are proportional in any ones life. More the balance, more it is boring and unexciting. If any one is really happy in life, she or he should have had a chance of being un happy. LbnRaj ; lotus5673@yahoo.co.in . moorunaaku.blogspot.in ; 

Road To Excellence ....

"Road to excellence is a road to satisfaction, happiness and bliss. Road to excellence is a mission for the good of all those who are  around you. It is a highest order of being at your best. No one has a right to block or obstruct you. Resolve not to compromise with any one be it your near/dear ones, your boss, subordinates in this mission of yours.  Dare to face the consequence, move further and further on this road to excellence. Never ever settle down for less and  mediocrity. Go further and further into abundance in whatever you do and say. Dont give up. It will be act of timidity. Be at your best come what may." - LbnRaj ; 18th March 2017 ;  https://moorunaaku.blogspot.in/2017/03/road.html 

This is the time to smile again .....

"I forget about my passion for being the best in whatever I do. Boredom over shadows me in whatever I do and think. Purpose of life lost. Absolutely clueless about what is happening around. I know, this is one of those times, I usually encounter some thing different, some thing unusual, something unbelievable. Thing I never expect and think happens .... most likely that makes me smile once more. Surrounded by hopelessness, loneliness and helplessness ..... I decide to think that every thing big or small  in life happens with a big reason and a grand plan. I am sure this is the time to smile again like I did earlier." - LbnRaj ; https://moorunaaku.blogspot.in/2017/03/this-is-time-to-smile-again.html ; 15th March 2017

Now it does count much to me if my yesterday was happier or not, now it does count much to me if my tomorrow would be happier or not. My today and this moment is so happy and satisfying. I think this is enough. I dont want my yesterday and tomorrow impact my today." - LbnRaj

"Now it does count much to me if my yesterday was happier or not, now it does count much to me if my tomorrow would be  happier or not. My today and this moment is so happy, exciting and satisfying. I think this is enough. I dont want my yesterday and tomorrow impact my today." - LbnRaj ; 20th Feb 2017. https://moorunaaku.blogspot.in/2017/02/now-it-does-count-much-to-me-if-my.html

"Delivering a lecture on HAPPINESS is much easier than BEING HAPPY." - LbnRaj

"Delivering a lecture on HAPPINESS is much easier than BEING HAPPY." - LbnRaj ; February 8, 2017

If you are down, depressed and unhappy, spend some time with a child.

"If you are down, depressed and unhappy, talk to a child for some time, it will do wonders. If this does not work, may be nothing else would." - LbnRaj ; moorunaaku.blogspot.in ; 19th Jan 2017

Without boredom, life is boring.

"No one wants to be bored. Every one seems to be wanting more and more of life, activity and fun. One doesnot get bored just like that. When one does not continue to live life to its peak, when one on a regular basis slips either into past or future, boredom knocks the door. No one can opt to be the liveliest and happy and fun filled without experiencing ample of boredom. Boredom is not bad. It is a staff gap." - LbnRaj ; moorunaaku.blogspot.in ; 

There could b a few around u who r by default kind on u ....

"There could b a few around u r by default kind on u, do all things that make comfortable n happy. Quite naturally u take this to b granted. When such people do n act otherwise u tend to b dejected n unhappy. U cannot n should not expect these acts unconditionally n without exceptions. Even u have not always been good to ur selected few without exceptions. Take goodness of others towards u to v optional. Take care of urself, ur things. When u cannot b good to others all d time, how can others b good to u all d time." Lbn Raj. Jan 9, 2017.

"There is no need to move the mountain to be happy ......

"There is no need to move a mountain to be happy, a kind pat on a childs back may make you more happier. Dont keep on waiting  for a right opportunity to do a wonder, do your every day small cores in wonderful ways. Dont search for things that wonder, realise that you yourself are a wonder, a great creation of God." - LbnRaj ; http://moorunaaku.blogspot.in/ 

Dont feel belittled by the temporary lows of life ....

"Dont feel belittled by the temporary lows of life. Things may go wrong, even when you are at your best in whatever you say and do. As long as you continue to the best for what you stand for, be firm, be bold and be happy. Dont be upset when your near and dear ones distance away from you when you are graduating from your lowest lows. Dont be surprised when the same near and dear ones flock around you when you are on your highs. Life is all about being tough when the tough is all out to test you. As long as you are sure of your being right, be what you are, rest leave to God for his analysis." - LbnRaj ; https://www.facebook.com/LbnRaj ; 

Happiness is not a stock of things ......

"Happiness is not a stock of things. It is a volatile feeling, momentary or dragging or flashing for some moments or hours. Same thing is true for unhappiness. It could be one after the other, and together". -LbnRaj ; https://www.facebook.com/LbnRaj

One need not have the so called lavish money and luxuries in life to be happy .....

"One need not have the so called lavish money and luxuries in life to be happy ..... What concerns matters. The context, relevance, connection and time is important. Every One is born unique and no ones'  happiness is less important. A person who afforded to have a bicycle for his daughter or son could be more happier compared to that of a person who afforded to buy a BMW for his / her daughter. Being happy in life is all about our internal abundance and positive vibes about things that keep happening around. It is an art and science of applying our hearts in doing small things in great ways. One needs to continue to be a child through out. One needs to be spontaneous and uninterrupted. One needs to continue to dive deep into innocence and simplicity." - LbnRaj ; https://www.facebook.com/LbnRaj

On success, excellence and happiness

"Mohan does small things in great ways.  He puts in the best of his efforts in Whatever he does and say.  He believes that nothing is impossible. He does not bother if things dont happen in desired ways. He continues to put in his best even if he continues to fail. Among-st the people around him he is know to be a person who does small things in great ways. Often people mock at him for being so simple, honest and sincere. People find it hard to realise the reasons for which he continues to be happy and contentedness. He is bent upon achieving the best in all things he does,  in right ways, come what may.
Mahesh is educated, intelligent and smart. Mahesh does great things in smart and at times in mean ways. he always believes in the policy of Putting in the Least and Reaping the Most. Continues to have promotions and have ample of money regularly and consistently. Becomes sad and frustrated on a regular basis consistently when things dont happen in desired ways. He continues to pose to be successful and happy., but internally is is not. He seems to live with feelings of fear and guilt. He always at getting the best rewards possible in life, with or without efforts. He continues to believe that to Live and Live happily is a hard thing to achieve. He continues to believe that good job, wealth and fame dont come by right ways, they need to be grabbed in smart ways. He did great things in life for which neither he is happy nor the people around.  People around him found him to be mean, selfish and hopeless.  Surprisingly, internally he continues to realise that he is not a happy person, and that he cannot be a happy person. He continues to realise that his achievement and accolades are fake and unreal.
I BOLDLY AND HONESTLY APPRECIATE THE WAY MOHAN LIVES HIS LIFE, THE WAY HE TAKES EVERY THING TO BE POSITIVE." - LbnRaj ; https://www.facebook.com/LbnRaj

Faaar from Limitations

·      "Happiness and unhappiness are like tides. We should continue to appreciate the flows and variations. That is life. Nothing less, Nothing more." - LbnRaj. 16th May 2016